Monday, October 05, 2009

This Book Made a Spectacle of Me

I was going to save my comments about Heather B. Armstrong's It Sucked and Then I Cried: How I Had a Baby, a Breakdown, and a Much Needed Margarita, until I finished, but I just can't do it.
I had another OB appointment this morning. This one to go over blood, urine, and other sundry test results. I was nervous because, let's face it, I'm a first-time mother and I worry about everything. The baby might have eight heads, no toes, or maybe it'll be born with my "mother-in-law's" bad attitude. Or maybe I'll come down with toxoplasmosis, or gestational diabetes, or maybe I'll just turn into the Bride of Frankenstein and no one will want to be my friend anymore.
I started my morning reading through Armstrong's--webinatrix of's--book, and I was in a sickeningly good mood. Chuck even commented upon my cheeriness several times (between thanking God and other assorted deities). The good times rolled right on into the doctor's office, and as I was sitting, waiting to be poked and prodded and made to feel like a prize poodle, I was laughing out loud.
I have to tell you, the front desk sentinels (scary women, really) looked at me funny. Sternly even. I'm not sure if they were annoyed or so thoroughly surprised to hear someone bellowing laughter and nearly streaming fun-tears that their faces contorted automatically. Needless to say, I stopped reading long enough to compose myself, and then I told my nurse all about it when she was working up my info for the day.
Armstrong's book is pretty straightforward. She talks about what it was like being pregnant, having her first daughter, Leta, and it goes on to discuss her postpartum depression, subsequent commitment to a mental hospital, and recovery (the margarita, I assume).
If you've ever read, you already know that she's FUNNY. She's snarky, she's crass, she's ballsy, and she entertains and touches me to no end. Not everyone is as big a fan--see the "Hate" page on her site--but I'm right there rooting for her and her family.
Now this is the part of the post where I admit that I am far too lazy an ass to get up and walk the five feet it would take to retrieve the book from my dresser. It's been a long day, and I'm playing the preggers card! I have indigestion oddly like I would imagine jet fuel to be, my legs are sore from walking to the bathroom every six seconds, and I am pissy that none of my pre-preggers pants fit anymore and I'm stuck wearing capris in cool, damp weather. I know it gets progressively FAR worse, but whatever.
You don't get any witty passages today (they're coming), just the assurance that anything that brings me to laughterful tears has got to be pretty snarky and delicious. Now I'm scared to death of the upcoming postpartum portion of the book (another thing to worry about), but I'm feeling certain that Heather Armstrong will handle it with wit that I can thoroughly appreciate.


  1. This is on my Blogs-To-Books endcap. I haven't read it, but one of my coworkers loved it! It sounds like something I may have to read, too, though. I love books that make me laugh out loud.

  2. The hate page on her website is freaking brilliant. I hope she makes a ton off the ads she plastered around it.

    Has the book made you crave Doritos yet? lol

  3. I love a book that makes me laugh out loud!

  4. It's super weird that I came from her blog to yours today....

    Glad you like the book, I am on the fence about reading it. I have a love/hate thing with her, I don't know what my deal is.

    Word verification: napth. If only.

  5. Les, oohhhh, a Blogs-to-Books endcap sounds heavenly! It is very very funny, so I would highly recommend it.

    Isn't it, Sassy? I hope she does, too. And, yes, the Doritos craving is going STRONG.

    Amen to laughing out loud!

    Thanks, Kailana!

    LOL, Cold. Nothing like a coincidence. What's the hate part of the love/hate relationship?

  6. I can't wait to read this one. I've been a faithful fan of Dooce for 2 years. Sometimes I read it when I am on my lunch hour and sitting at my desk in my office and I am laughing out load. I'm sure my office mates must wonder what is so funny!

  7. Kathleen, occasionally I'll pull up while my students are taking a quiz or otherwise engaged. I have to be careful doing that, though, else the laughing is VERY awkward!

  8. I'm not sure, I can't quite put my finger on the hate part.... I love the pictures of Chuck, but her blogging annoys me at times. I'm weird, it's true.

  9. I hear ya, Cold. I have plenty of folks in the limelight that I feel the same way about (David Letterman, et al).

  10. I must be a freak of nature because I had no idea Heather wrote a book. I absolutely adore her blog and Dooce became part of my vocabulary a while back. I still mourn the closing of the comments, but I do understand why she did it.

    Now that I know about the book, though, I'm kinda eager to get my hands on it.

  11. OMG! I stay offline for a month or two and you're pregnant!?! Congratulations! Sending love and hugs your way!


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